The Death of my Mom

My dear mother, Nancy Alexander (Lague), from Newport, VT, passed away today at the age of 69 in her home in Punta Gorda, FL. Cancer never met a more stubborn patient. Her suffering, endured from lung cancer and years of treatment, has finally ended. Many people contributed to her treatment fund back in 2019, and it truly provided assistance, a kindness for which she was eternally grateful. She is predeceased by her brother Robert, just two weeks ago, and is survived by her husband Bill, her sisters Joan and Lynn, and her son (me). 

Mom's calling in life, without question, was caring for animals. When I was little she worked in a veterinary clinic helping cats (we had a lot of cats) and by the time I was an adult she was a state wildlife rehabilitator, working with all kinds of animals from deer to emu. After moving to Florida, birds were her calling and she helped many birds both as a volunteer and at home, caring for as many as 80 at one point. It was always lively at her house!

I was able to spend time with her recently. We enjoyed Mexican food and talked about memories like the time the school principle found me inspecting the inner workings of the middle school elevator via the mechanical hatchway in the ceiling. "How else am I supposed to learn?!," I demanded as he marched me to his office and called my mother. She thought it was so funny.  

She taught me to be clean, to be kind to animals, and to look at the funny side of life. For this and so much more I am very lucky. Love you, Mom. 

ps. Mom was a dedicated cigarette smoker and would like you to know it is a terrible habit and you should quit asap. 

ps.s. Mom would also like you to know that it's Taco Tuesday and you can probably get a good deal on queso.